Bear said that the family had not shunned Matt, countering a common belief about their relationship. Instead, he explained that Matt had chosen to distance himself from the family. According to Bear, contact between the brothers had become infrequent over time, limited mostly to occasional phone calls rather than regular interaction.
Bear described trying to support Matt during a difficult period, especially with sobriety. He said he encouraged his brother to stay on track and continue working through recovery. He also recalled a brief meeting with Matt at a Walmart, saying the encounter lasted only a few minutes. After that, Matt called him and admitted that he had relapsed. Bear said he responded with encouragement, urging him to try again, seek rehab if needed, and remember that setbacks can be part of recovery.
Bear said that was the last time he spoke with Matt. He added that although he knew his brother had faced serious struggles, he never believed Matt would take his own life. His comments reflected both shock and grief as the family continued searching for answers.
At the end of the video, Bear explained why he chose to speak publicly about the situation. He said he wanted people to hear the family’s account directly before rumors or outside speculation spread further. He also said he would share more information as he learned it. In the meantime, he asked the public to be respectful toward the family during the ongoing search, especially toward his mother, who he said was bearing much of the emotional strain.
Bear’s message offered a more personal view of Matt’s distance from the family and highlighted the emotional complexity surrounding the case. Rather than a story of rejection, he portrayed a relationship marked by concern, limited contact, and hope that Matt would continue fighting his struggles. His remarks also underscored the family’s desire for privacy and dignity while they navigate an uncertain and painful time.
